Love, Actually

How this works

The short, honest version. Please actually read it — one part of this app behaves differently from anything you’ve used before.

This is a test, not a finished product

A small invited group is trying this out for a couple of weeks. Things may break, change, or disappear. It isn't a company and there's no support desk — just the person who invited you.

You don't choose what people see

This is the whole idea, so it's worth being blunt about. You take one photo a day and answer prompts when you feel like it. You decide what to contribute — but you don't decide which pieces get shown to anyone.

The app picks a different handful of your past photos and answers each time someone opens your profile. You can't feature a favourite, hide a bad one, or put them in order.

Deleting is your only control, and it's absolute: a deleted photo or answer is gone and can never be shown to anyone again.

Your photos are stored on our server

They have to be, or none of this works. They're kept until you delete them or close your account. They aren't sold, shared outside the app, or used to train anything.

Be aware they sit on ordinary server storage that isn't covered by the database backups. If something goes badly wrong, photos could be lost.

Messages aren't private from us

Chats aren't end-to-end encrypted. The person running this test can read what's in the database, including your messages, if they look.

Don't put anything here you'd mind them seeing.

We record how you use it

When you check in, whose profiles you open, which of someone's moments you were shown, and when you ping or match. That's the point of the test — it's how we find out whether an uncurated profile is actually more interesting.

Leaving takes everything with you

Settings → Delete my account removes your profile, every photo, your messages and your matches, and deletes the stored image files too. It happens immediately and can't be undone.

Feedback you've left stays, with your name detached from it.

You can ask for a copy of everything

Ask, and you'll get a file with everything we hold about you — your profile, every photo you've contributed, your check-ins and answers, your matches and the full text of those conversations, and a log of what you did in the app.

It's put together by hand, so give it a day or two. A few things are left out because they're about other people rather than you: who passed on your profile, who looked at it, and anything anyone has reported or blocked. Handing those over would expose someone else.

Be decent, and be over 18

You need to be 18 or over to use this. Don't upload anything you don't have the right to, or anything you wouldn't show the person who invited you. You can block or report anyone, and reports are read by a human — the same one.

Version 2026-08-13.2. If this changes in a way that matters, we’ll ask you again rather than quietly updating it.